Day 3: First love and first kiss

Hello everyone. Sorry for not keeping on my day 2. There was heavy rain with lightning struct which causes the internet problem for last night. Yep, until midnight. but for today, I will be talking about 3rd day challenge which is first love. I wont be talking about first kiss cz basically, duhh.. religious issue.

My first love which I wont disclose his name, well he was a great guy. Great with kids polite gentle and just say he was perfect. We were in relationship for more than 8 years. unfortunately, our relationship didn't last forever because it turns out he have this one tiny flaw which is he was a playboy. Yes. freaking great person in front of you but turns out he was with someone else as well. What's worse is that he met his so-called girlfriend through social site instagram. I was like, how can you fall in love with someone through instagram? If I knew how, I would done that way earlier than you do. You can say I was devoted, loyal and every adjectives available that would make someone a perfect lover, but sadly I was defeated by someone he knew on instagram. I guess it's just a sign the universe trying to tell me that there is someone else better. Whatever it is, I hope that 'person' would come soon so that I dont waste time weeping about my pathethic ex lover. Whats clear now is that I don't hate him. We're still friends and occasionally in contact. Whats for sure is that he is someone I dont want to spend the rest of my life with.

Day 1: 5 problems with social media

Hello everyone. I've decided to start blogging again because I found it very effective in distracting myself from thinking about my problems. It's funny because it feels like you can let every thoughts in our mind out just by blogging. Yes, I mean you don't have to brag about your problems on social media anymore right? I just don't find it relevant when people brag about their problems in social media..it's not like those problems are gonna solve themselves rite???

So I've decided to do this 30 days writing post and for today, we will discuss regarding 5 problems in SOCIAL MEDIA

1. RELATIONSHIP KILLER
It doesn't matter what kind of relationship you are in. Parents-children, lovers, sisters, bestfriends, coworkers or whatever kind of relationship there is. The problem with social media is is doesn't allow us to have quality time with whoever the partner is. When it's time to talk, just talk mann. There is no point of talking when your mind is probably focusing on your gadget. Whatever happen to  talk-listen type of communication?? It feels just like they've suddenly poof somewhere.

2. ONLINE BUSINESS
No doubt people now days need money badly. Online business is like a boom. Fast growing, fast earning, easy Yes, I agree with that as I am also a trusted online seller. It's just that some people are not very honest/ sincere in making money online. Lots of customers been cheated, sellers cheated by their supplier..just cheating everywhere. It became so severe till they've made a list of  "SPO" which is senarai penipu online. Such a shame people want to make good money for living but some of us take advantages in making money through online business

3. PROBLEMS
there are those kinds whom love to brag about their problems on social media. WHUTTT??  its not like those problems are going to solve by themselves when you share it with the whole world rite?? Ridiculous man this kind of people

4. CYBER BULLYING

Whoever does this is still a bully. I should highlight that and when I said it's a bully, it means you are committing crime. So, advice to everyone out there, please please please stop this issue. To those who are being bullied, ignore those who bullied you and if the case become very severe, report them to the authorities immediately. If you really don't know who to talk to, just tell your parents. No parents would want this to happen to their kids.

5. STRANGERS

Ever heard a case of meeting the love of your life through social medias which turns out they are not as good as you thought they would be?? Be careful with whoever you are communicating. They might be good people out there but there also might be bad people. who knows? the chances are 50/50. if you want to make them the love of your life, its like you are gambling your future. Which you are suppose not to. Well, here is a story of mine. This person whom I've been in a relationship for almost 8 years just cheated on me with someone he met on instagram and it's already been 3 months. I was like WTH? what did I do wrong? I'm still trying to move on but whatever it is, good luck with whoever you are with. We both just wanted happiness but couldn't achieve it with each other.